8 Ways To Improve Your Relationship.

1.      Solidify your friendship

Being friends with the one you love is a super feeling. How satisfy and connected you are towards one another goes a long way in the relationship. To achieve this, you guys should spend more time together, tell stories, acts like children, play out your sorrows, ask regularly of your partner likes, dislikes, new interests, discuss on how the relationship ha grow and make room for changes in a loving manner. Jealous comes in especially when one partner is the soul desire of other people, just take it calm and understands each other.

2.      Appreciate each other

When you started dating, she was the best thing that has ever happen to you. Compliment her daily when she goes the extra miles and don’t see it as a duty on her part, tell her thank you when you have to and always tell her how beautiful she is and how lucky you are to have her. You wouldn’t know but showing that appreciation goes a long way to the heart especially when you mean it genuinely.

3.  Concentrate on the present to ensure your future

Understanding the little moments when present goes a long way in the absent. In our world today, through survival and the likes, makes most couples to be far from each other but little moments that are worth living for won’t make you miss your partner that much. For instance waiting for your partner before the plane arrives, pillow fight, bathing together, taking a stroll together, and surprises among others. You will be surprised when you needed your partner, she is right beside you.

4.      Don’t Distort

If you find yourself in the middle of distorted thinking, the next thing is a negative thought of what your partner has done. Before you misjudge try to place yourself in the shoes if same treatment is being issued out to you. Remember loving memories of you to together will heal the heart.

5.      Share Power

In the aspects couples tend to get it wrong especially the male folks as they believe the lady is subjected to their will. You are working towards being one individual, so when it comes to decision making, consult your girlfriend or wife as well. This saves a lot of relationship breakup.

6.      Find common goals

The aim is for you to share what you want your life to be about, where you want to end up and what these things mean to you. Look for anything that is common between the two of you and talk about ways to work towards that aspiration together.

7.      Break Negative cycles

Relationships are bound to experience breakdown, but to break negative pattern of conflict in your relationship, next time things get heated up, let your partner know immediately and try to settle it that moment, don’t let it extend to the next day. Forget about who is right and apologies first; take your pride out of it to save your relationship.

8.      Focus on what Fixable

As long as an argument doesn’t leave you feeling like you’ve been through an emotional roller coaster, consider it fixable. In particular, the initial stages of living together may be especially fraught with monetary concerns. So that this problem doesn’t spiral out of control, sit down with your other half and craft a detailed action plan, consulting any resources that might help to get your finances on track. You should both be able to live with the new argument or it won’t work. Use this method to address any other problems in your life that you deem fixable.